Any SDL invocation can call the even callback on the same thread, which can call GetSDLJoystickBySDLID and eventually cause double lock on joystick_map_mutex. To avoid this, lock guard should be placed as closer as possible to the object accessing code, so that any SDL invocation is with the mutex unlocked

Changes the interface as well to remove any unique methods that
frontends needed to call such as StartJoystickEventHandler by
conditionally starting the polling thread only if the frontend hasn't
started it already. Additionally, moves all global state into a single
SDLState class in order to guarantee that the destructors are called in
the proper order

This should make reviewing much easier as you can then see what changed
happened between the old file and the new one

* Joystick hotplug support (#4141)

* use SDL_PollEvent instead of SDL_JoystickUpdate

Register hot plugged controller by GUID if they were configured in a previous session

* Move SDL_PollEvent into its own thread

* Don't store SDLJoystick pointer in Input Device; Get pointer on each GetStatus call

* Fix that joystick_list gets cleared after SDL_Quit

* Add VirtualJoystick for InputDevices thats never nullptr

* fixup! Add VirtualJoystick for InputDevices thats never nullptr

* fixup! fixup! Add VirtualJoystick for InputDevices thats never nullptr

* Remove SDL_GameController, make SDL_Joystick* unique_ptr

* fixup! Remove SDL_GameController, make SDL_Joystick* unique_ptr

* Adressed feedback; fixed handling of same guid reconnects

* fixup! Adressed feedback; fixed handling of same guid reconnects

* merge the two joystick_lists into one

* make SDLJoystick a member of VirtualJoystick

* fixup! make SDLJoystick a member of VirtualJoystick

* fixup! make SDLJoystick a member of VirtualJoystick

* fixup! fixup! make SDLJoystick a member of VirtualJoystick

* SDLJoystick: Addressed review comments

* Address one missed review comment

Avoids unnecessary atomic reference count increments and decrements