add cpu family and model detection

Helper functions to select the asm version based on the number of used hashes per threads and the family name of the cpu.

- use the noew cpu type functions to fix the wrong AMD family detection in `autoAdjust.hpp`
- allow to set the asm version to `auto`
- rename asm option `intel` to `intel_avx`
- rename asm option `ryzen` to `amd_avx`

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